So, I did talk to my manager the other day and yes I did give him a good piece of my mind. First I had to approach him and then he asked if we could talk, we went into a meeting room and he started showing me some numbers, comparing what I’m offered and what I will be given here and how the difference is not much. He was such a jerk, he told me he would give me the promotion in next eight months and some salary hike now and some later, which so obviously seems like a stupid thing to even ask me to consider, knowing that I am getting offered all that the very next month. So basically he didn’t make any efforts to make me stay. I told him I’ll think about it till the evening and then tell him. As I was about to leave the room few other people came in to meet him, I turned back, requested others to leave and then gave it off to him. I told him it was very inappropriate to shout at me and that I did not expect this. He was all sorry, my apologies and all, then he said ‘I had so many things going through my head’ and I quickly caught him there. I told him there were millions of things going on with me too, but I didn’t choose to shout at him. Again couple of sorry’s and then after i had said it all I moved out of the room with much satisfaction. I’ve never confronted a senior at work that way and you know what it felt good, coz I was right and he was being an ass.
I had made my mind in the meeting itself but still I waited until the evening to tell him that I wasn’t going to stay. Which again made me nervous but happy too.
Then I went to my grandparent’s place on Saturday to get the documents I needed, coz my grandfather is officially old now and he send me the bill with the wrong address. I didn’t want to waste another day on this, so mom and me went. I was bad travel and I got though it somehow. I collected the paper and we moved back on Sunday evening. Now I was so tired of the crappy public transport that I needed a day off, so Monday was recovering day.
I also sent in the papers on Monday and just realized that I missed one document. I mailed the scan copy right now to HR. She’ll think I’m an idiot, but anyways.
Next hope, all checks go fine and I get the joining date soon. :))
I feel like an amateur at this.. hey I AM!! so all the nervous type things are okay.. 🙂